The Psychological Factors Behind Keeping Frenemies Close
August 22, 2025 - 20:59
Despite the toxicity that often accompanies these complex relationships, many individuals find it challenging to sever ties with their frenemies. Experts suggest that several psychological factors contribute to this phenomenon.
One primary reason is the emotional investment involved in these relationships. People often have a history with their frenemies, which can create a sense of loyalty or obligation, making it hard to walk away. Additionally, the thrill of competition can be enticing; frenemies can push each other to achieve more, creating a paradox where the negative aspects are overshadowed by the motivation they provide.
Moreover, social dynamics play a significant role. In many cases, individuals may fear isolation or losing a social circle if they cut off a frenemy. This fear can lead to a reluctance to end the relationship, even when it is detrimental to their well-being. Ultimately, understanding these psychological underpinnings can help individuals navigate their feelings and consider healthier relationships.
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